Dating yourself can be a great way to get to know....well... YOU!
Several years ago, I was really tired of dating the wrong guys. I needed time off.
So, I stopped dating. My friends thought I had lost my mind but in reality,
I was really trying to figure out who the hell I really was. What did I really like?
I wanted to know what it was it like to date me! So, I dated myself for a year and a half and
you know what I discovered? I am a really fun, smart and an amazing woman and I love
myself and all my little peccadillos! I could finally see who I was and I was pleased!
I took myself out to dinner to nice restaurants, ordered what I wanted, and had a glass of
wine and I did this on a Friday or Saturday night which freaked out a whole bunch of
women who were sitting with dates and feeling sorry for me! lol.
I went to the movies and saw what I wanted to see and ate popcorn . I went shopping,
to the beach with friends and just got out and enjoyed myself. I had small twins and so
on the weekends they were with me, it was all about them. On the weekends they were
with their Dad, it was all about me. I had so much fun! I was able to devote myself to
my twins, my career, catch up on my books, friends, and just do what I wanted to do.
It was the best decision I ever made! I figured out what I wanted, healed some inner
wounds and became way more confident than I had EVER been! I realized that
I didn't HAVE to date anyone to have fun. I could enjoy time with myself or
my friends and make new friends. It totally changed my life!
There is nothing wrong with spending some good quality time with yourself.
You figure out who you are, fix somethings within and get ready for the right one when
you decide to start dating people again. Don't rush, take your time and remember,
you are the prize and if you're not..get it fixed now and become the prize!!
Love,
Gina